
Conflict Resolution Resource
10 Commandments for Good Listening
- Stop Talking
- Decide that you want to
listen and show it - Put the talker at ease
- Minimize distractions
- Put yourself in the
speaker's place - Be patient
- Breathe to calm any anger
- Go easy on argument and
criticism - Ask questions to help you
understand - Tell
them what you hear them saying
10 Suggestions for Dealing with Conflict
- If you can't agree, take
a break and come back later - Get to know your opponent
- Write down what you
expect the other person to do - Share you understanding
of the problem - Split the difference
- Say what will happen if
you don't end your dispute - List and prioritize all
solutions - List the benefits
associated with ending your dispute - Discuss and agree when
you will meet again - Ask
someone you both trust to mediate your dispute
(Source: "Southwest
Washington Conflict Resolution Resource Guide" pamphlet.)
Washington Conflict Resolution Resource Guide" pamphlet.)
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